Our children are eager to try out the devices they see their parents and older siblings using. Adults worry about how much time they are spending with screens.
As an educator, I understand the importance of incorporating technology in learning so that our students are prepared for the future jobs that await them. As a parent, I understand the desire many parents have for their children to explore the natural world and use their hands to create. It is possible to balance these two important goals. Here are a few ideas for parents and teachers of young children. (I’ve tested them with my own small children!)
The Simple Shift
|My 2nd grader accesses Drive
through her school district’s portal.
My second grader sees me typing blog posts, watches my fingers move over the keyboard, and asks questions about how I use formatting features like headings and creating and adding images. Of course, now that she can read and write, she wants to record her own stories and ideas. Although she is young, with some help from our local public school district, she is set up with an school Gmail and her very own Google Drive. After watching me organize mine over the years, she thought carefully about what she wanted to name her folders. Then she started writing stories. Her first was about a neighbor with a haunted house who coaxed children with cookies to come in. Once she was done writing it she wanted to share it.
The Big Shift
So, the next step was to teach her how to share her documents. I showed her the Share button in Google Docs and taught her about email addresses. The first share was with her first grade teacher, the teacher she had last year. To her delight, two days later she found her teacher left comments on her haunted neighbor story. Now she was motivated to write and share more. As long as we are talking about who she is sharing with and how to properly communicate online, I’m happy to encourage her desires to write and share her ideas.
YouTube and Video Creation
The Simple Shift
Responding to the outcries of parents, Common Sense Media is gathering funding
to help them review and rate the most popular YouTube channels that our kids love. Common Sense is using the tagline, “Have you lost your kids to YouTube?” to motivate parents to donate.
Yikes. No one should feel like they have lost their own children.
An approach that has worked well for my family includes early exposure to YouTube with gradual release of control. It isn’t foolproof and it isn’t a silver bullet, but it forces ongoing conversations about media consumption as a part of our day-to-day lives. I started showing my children short online videos
once or twice a day when they were babies – while I prepared a quick lunch, took a coveted private bathroom break, or tended to a sibling’s diaper change – so they recognized online media and only saw short clips and content I was comfortable with. Then we’d sing the songs from the videos together. As they’ve gotten older, we’ve refurbished old laptops that they can use to explore YouTube, among other things online, as long as we talk about the search terms they are typing and the content they are watching. Their screen time is limited and is mixed with lots of outdoor play, reading, art lessons, and sports. It is all about teaching them how to balance.
The Big Shift
|The girls filmed their video after a lot of planning.
After finding a YouTube channel with sisters who challenge each other to fun contests
, my two daughters wanted to learn how to make and share their own videos. This ignited a conversation between the 3 of us in which I asked how they wanted to plan the video. We talked about storyboarding, script writing, finding our props, creating a set in our house, and rehearsing. Then we completed all those steps! Once the filming was done, I walked them through the video editing process including adding royalty free music and on-screen titles and graphics. We even created a YouTube channel and uploaded their videos. So far is it private and we’ve only shared the videos with a few select family members. If and when they are ready to go public, we will decide together
after a clear explanation of what “going public” really means in terms of feedback and online interaction with others.
The one theme consistent with all of these approaches to technology with young children is continuous communication with parents and other adults they can trust. Technology should not be used as a “babysitter” or a way to keep children quiet. Rather, it is just another tool children should be taught to use. Like many tools – in the kitchen, in the yard, and in school – it carries some risk. But just as we teach preschoolers to use sharp scissors with our supervision or encourage them to jump in a pool for swimming lessons, we need to teach that same age group how to navigate the vast and amazing online world through our devices.
There is no guarantee that my young children will not make mistakes with technology as they get older, even with these careful and intentional conversations we are having now. But when they do make mistakes, we can reference these conversations and remind them about our values and priorities. Their digital record will be so overwhelmingly positive and their mistakes will be vastly outnumbered by the goodness they’ve shared.
What do you do with your youngest children/students to teach them about devices and the internet?